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Make Couple Sex-Sessions More Exciting Starting Tonight

Worried that you might be having unusually infrequent and less intense sex with your man? Well, if you are feeling that way then there probably is reason to worry about. It’s part of a woman’s instinct to figure out too. Before your mind starts wandering off if there’s another woman in your man’s life, why not start exploring exciting sex possibilities with him tonight?

Why couples have less than exciting sex

For couples, sex is more than just a one-night stand or a wrong sex position. Love and trust are big words that make or break couple sex sessions. If you or your partner have issues with either then, you’re in for a bigger problem. There are other more straightforward issues that may be affecting your intimacy and sex life too which includes the following:

Nobody wants to initiate sex.

Is it shame or discomfort or lack of confidence in your bodies that is bringing about this problem? Mostly, it’s how you deal with sex in the society which can cause issues in starting a sex session. It is important for you to know and be assured that it is okay for women to want to have sex and to initiate it at any time.

Not making time for sex.

Sex is a way of letting your partner know that you care. It is full of gestures and acts that allow both you and your partner demonstrate how much you appreciate each other.

Poor personal hygiene.

Sex is love and trust alright, but it’s just as much physical attraction too. See through your individual good grooming, be your most beautiful all the time, and dress up for lovemaking.

Un fulfilling sex episodes.

If neither or at least one partner does not find sex fulfilling, there is no reward to engage in a sex session. There are many reasons, sexual dysfunction, boredom and lack of foreplay among them.

Masturbating too much.

When one partner enjoys fiddling his or her genitals on her own more than having sex with the other, then you have a more serious problem to address.

How to make your sexual life more exciting starting tonight?

There is an endless list of things you can try to make sex kinkier, more fun and more pleasurable for yourself and for your partner. Try these:

1. Tease.

Whisper how much your partner’s scent is turning you on during breakfast or, lean over and plant him a kiss on the neck over to one ear while holding his hand and letting it brush on your inner thigh. Text and call in the middle of the day reminding him he’s got a hot date waiting for him to come home. Teasing is communication. Let your man know you want him in a thousand ways.

2. Take the time to kiss and rub.

It’s called foreplay and it’s just as important for both partners as reaching an orgasm is. Start him off with steamy kisses and lick and suck on his inner thighs before giving him a slow and intense oral massage.

3. Take control. It is your mutual responsibility to keep sex spiced up. So, if you’ve been finding your man rather boring in bed, get on the drivers’ seat and take control. Changing sex positions may be all you two need to heat things up. Move him into you, continuously varying your thrusts to experiment on pleasurable sensations for both of you. Kiss and run your fingers all over his body while you make love.

4. Ask and reinforce.

Sex is a two-way street. Ask him what he wants and if what you’re doing is turning him on. If he’s teasing you, make him feel that you like what he is doing so he knows what acts and positions you enjoy too.

5. Take care of each other

Help bring yourself to the “Big O” while also making sure he reaches ejaculation too. Tell him you like reaching orgasm, and even multiple if that’s how you like it.

Conclusion

Get stronger orgasms by building up the intensity, expectation and excitement. Drive him crazy. More importantly, show how much you care for each other by minding your mutual sexual health and pleasure.

This was posted in Bdaily's Members' News section by alia .